Dialogue Questions!
HDIFAMA : How do I feel about my answer?
HDIFAT: How do I feel about that/this?
HDIFSTWY: How do I feel sharing this with you?
HDIF(A): How do I feel (about)
DILD: Describe (feeling) in loving detail
May 1: We, as a family, are a “little church.” HDIFAT?
May 2: Do I spend my time wishing for a longer life, or living well the life that I have? HDIFAT?
May 3: HDIF when we have time for vacation, but no vacation money?
May 4: Are we in the stage of romance, disillusionment or joy? HDIFAMA?
May 5: Read Acts 10:25-26, 34-35, 44-48. What is my strongest feeling as I hear this reading? DILD
May 6: Does my conduct agree with my convictions? HDIFAT?
May 7: HDIF about winning?
May 8: HDIF when I lose?
May 9: What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my/our life? HDIFAT?
May 10: What is the thing I find most difficult to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
May 11: What effect has my mother had on my life? HDIFAT?
May 12: Read Mk 16:15-20. What is my strongest feeling as I hear this reading? DILD
May 13: Is it easy for me to describe my emotions/feelings? HDIFAT?
May 14: HDIF about asking others for help with things I cannot do by myself?
May 15: Do I believe in myself? HDIFAT?
May 16: Which gift of the Holy Spirit (wisdom, knowledge, counsel, fortitude, understanding, piety, awe) do I most need right now? HDIFAT?
May 17: Am I open to the feelings you experience when you are under stress? HDIFAT?
May 18: Are we still striving for a deeper, loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we have done enough? HDIFAT?
May 19: Read Acts 2:1-11. What is my strongest feeling as I hear this reading? DILD
May 20: What do I think would make you happy? HDIFASTWY?
May 21: Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT?
May 22: Is passion an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAMA?
May 23: HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the Weekend and they accept?
May 24: What feeling am I most likely to keep to myself? HDIFSTWY?
May 25: How well do we communicate about feelings outside of dialogue? HDIFAT?
May 26: Read Rom 8:14-17. What is my strongest feeling as I hear this reading? DILD
May 27: Do we use sex as a substitute for communication? HDIFAMA?
May 28: Do we use sex for reconciliation? Is that good or bad? HDIFAT?
May 29: Do I listen attentively? HDIFAMA?
May 30: If we made a lot less money, would we still be happy? HDIFAMA? May 31: Do I share my worries with you, or do I keep them to myself? HDIFAT?